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I find it incredible, at my tender age that not only I'm autistic but also that I still get anxious at large gatherings. I've been to plenty of parties, anniversaries, weddings and funerals, and yet I've never been able to accustom to these things. Our yearly family party is coming up next month and God am I feeling the anxiety rush already! I love seeing the family, especially my grandkids but my God the idea of so many people and all that noise all at once is utterly petrifying.

I'll cope - I always do, I'm going to pour a wee whiskey and then I will hide in my study with my books. Quite nice actually, my grandson Matthew always joins me in my study - too young for the whiskey but he loves reading, in to all the classics. Ah-ha top lad!

This is my way of surviving a party. Show your face for five minutes, pretend to smile, laugh at jokes you don't understand and then when everyone gets bored with you and goes off to drink and talk with more interesting people, hide in your study - and don't forget the whiskey!

Sounds like bliss. A bit of socialising until you've had enough, followed by a bit of quite time. Perfect

If you want to add something a bit different to your family party, you might look into the option to hire cigar roller services. I’ve seen a few events use this and it actually becomes a fun little attraction.

CigarBella offers live cigar rolling for parties and they handle everything. The roller sets up a small table, does the hand-rolling on the spot, and guests can watch, ask questions, or take a finished cigar as a keepsake. It gives the party a more grown-up, lounge-style vibe without being over the top.

It works well for birthdays, family events, and anything where adults want something unique that isn’t just food or music. Might be worth checking out if you want to make the party stand out a bit.