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Good Afternoon!

My husband and I have visited a few Secrets Resorts in Mexico and are interested in trying something different.
We are currently looking at 3 Resorts:

Haven Riviera Cancun, TRS Coral Hotel, and Excellence Coral Playa Mujeres.
Here are the things we are looking for:
-Rooms with nice Swim Out or Private Pool
-Good Food / 24 hrRoom Service -Prefer No Reservations at Restaurants
-Relaxed Evening Dress Code, at some restaurants
-Comfortable Beds
-At Least aDecent Beach (I understand Haven is probably the least desireable in this category)
-Some Nightlife

Looking for any input/experience, tips that you can offer! (Pros/Cons)
If you happen to have menu photos at these resorts, also very appreciated!
Which would be your selection?
Thank you in advance for your time and help!